Friday, October 29, 2010

Question: Do you have a whip appeal or a frumpy swag?

Hello Loves!!!

Did you miss me yesterday? ;o) Happy Friday, are you ready for the weekend?

We all change over the years. Your hair may thin or turn gray. Perhaps, you may even gain some weight. But there is never an excuse to turn in to a frump! And then you get mad when your mate doesn't look at you or treat you the same! You are NOT the same, you're a frump now! You went from having the whip appeal to being on your frumpy swag!


Your physical appearance may change over the years, for whatever reasons, but you do not have to loose your appeal. This goes for the fellas too, because a woman wants eye candy too! And don't tell me that appeal does not matter, only the frumpy people say that and I guess you are one of them.

Life gets hectic and we are constantly on the go but always make sure you put some thought and effort into your appearance. Keep your hair, nails and feet done. If you have dark circles under your eyes, put some concealer on! And most importantly, wear clothes that fit! If you are working on your muffin top, put on a shaper until its gone. Now, if you're not, that's a whole other story for a different day and blog. Stop being complacent. Make your mate remember why they chose you, stay fly and have your own life. Stop being a nag and clingy because you got on your frumpy swag and she stayed on her "A" game!

Let me break it to you, he is not with you because you can cook - he has a mother for that! He is with you because you continue to do all the things, plus much more, you did to get him! Get unpredictable, fulfill his fantasies!  Like Beyonce said, put that freakum dress on once in a while!

Enjoy your weekend, catch you on Monday! Remember to meditate, it can help in all areas of your life, including,  getting you out of your frumpy swag.

~Me

P.S. Now answer the question because it was not a rhetorical one! Do you have a whip appeal or a frumpy swag? To all my fabulous people out there, who stay on their sexy swag, lets coach all the frumps

*Need advice? Email me at askkia@gld-mag.com.

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